Tuesday 19 April 2016

Sit a while

Is there anyone in your life going through a rough patch?

Perhaps instead of telling them it will be over soon, look on the bright side etc, something like being there for them, listening and not trying to resolve, but also reminding them how awesome you think they are, could be just the medicine they need. 


Sunday 17 April 2016

Please try not to judge

My topic today is a sad one and I am going to keep this brief as I have been known to rant. I want to get my point across. 

Today I found out that a friend of a friend attempted to suicide by gassing herself in her car. :( :(

A couple of people in her life said it was attention-seeking and they don't want to know her. 

This attitude toward attempted suicide is what I am fighting against. Just because she didn't "succeed" does not mean either of these things. When you get to a stage where you feel this is your last hope, then someone really needs to help you. 

I know some of her story and she may not have had the right kind of support around her. People need to know there are professionals around to help you through, and they don't have to cost money.

In Australia, a call to Lifeline can be the first step. For other parts of the world a simple Google search about who to speak to can help. 

This kind of attitude toward suicide is a serious one and it gives the wrong idea for people who deal with depression. How about telling your loved ones you are there for them NO MATTER WHAT and that you love them. It may be just what they need to hear.

Please try to only approach these attempts with love. You have no idea what is happening in that person's head and how much your love will mean to them.

Sending all my love to you today xo